“I don’t know what’s worse: the shock of finding your life in total disarray or the onslaught of well-meaning people who say things like, “tomorrow’s another day” or “when one door closes, another opens.” Is it just me or do these sayings make you want to take a three iron to the spaghetti jars in the pasta aisle? To me, rebuilding your life simply means plowing forward despite not knowing where all the puzzle pieces go.”